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Carey Minnis's avatar

Im scared to jump in and get my business really going, but in the same breathe I’m scared of being a SAHM mom for too long and being out of the workforce and becoming obsolete šŸ˜

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Sadye Evyn Reish's avatar

Oh Carey, I feel for you. That is such a frustrating conundrum that so many women have to face and it frankly sucks that we have to think and worry about it. While I’m not a mom, I strangely feel ā€œbehindā€ with trying to get back into full-time work after having spent the past five years freelancing, so I can definitely relate to the feelings of being ā€œobsolete.ā€

What’s your business?

And is there a possibility where you *slowly* start doing things for your business – building it behind the scenes – while being home with your sweet daughter? Even if it’s just a couple hours a week?

That way you take the pressure off to rush through your maternity leave and also don’t feel like you have to hit the ground running once you’re back on the work scene, because you’ve already laid the foundation…

Side note: I TOTALLY realize being a new mom is a 24/7 job, so simultaneously building a business, even *slowly*, is a big ask.

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Carey Minnis's avatar

I'm very slowly doing it behind the scenes, like an hour a day, but that isn't going to grow it--that's simply doing the work for the one customer that I have. We sold our engineering company last year, and by sold, I mean we mostly broke even, and I started working with one of our customers doing their AS9100/ISO9001 certification, which is basically accreditation for the aerospace world. I did college accreditation prior to working at our business so it was a strong fit for me and I've been told I'm a natural at understanding the process and what's involved. Anyway, if I just had more time, or if I got up earlier and **MADE** more time, I could pick up another customer and keep going, but I'm just frozen in procrastination/exhaustion/laziness, perhaps a bit of depression--so here we are...

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Sadye Evyn Reish's avatar

Oh friend, I feel for you and relate on so many levels. Truly. I know there isn't anything I can do/say that'll make it better/easier, but I hope you know you're seen/heard while you're in this tough season and that you're not alone. Sending you love as you work through it.

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